Buddha never said “there is no self” but rather “the body is not the self” etc. with respect to the 5 aggregates and all conditioned (i.e. created) things. But the ignorant have reversed “the body is not the self” into “the body is the only self there is” which is what they mean by “no-self” and it is false and the opposite of what Buddha taught. It also is the cause of sexual abuse and sex scandals: those who do not believe “I am the soul, not the body” cannot keep celibacy but will always return to sexual lust because they think they are nothing but the body and its lusts.
Just what the name says, Keep Your Shekels and Go MGTOW. Divorce is expensive, and modern relationships are not made to last. Divorce laws are biased against men. If you’re a Christian man, read 1st Corinthians 7, and take it to heart about it being good not to touch a woman. Marriage is not a viable option — not this century.
Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings. — Proverbs 31:3